Friend is better than foe. Revelation

I was thinking for a while if I should post it and if it was too much, but without personal examples it would seems too plain, so I decided to publish it anyways. As I said on my front page – I want to share my journey and hopefully help others to heal. I already can say that I healed, mostly, but becoming THE person you want to be is more than just healing. Today I want to talk about connections, friends and foes. My mind might jump from place to place, but I will try to keep it straight. First of all, positive attitude always brings more benefits to you and people around you, unlike the negative one. As a former “queen of negativity”, I know how hard it…
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Erase or not to erase?

Is it just me? Do I really think very differently from other people? Everyone keeps telling me that when you break up, you BREAK UP, all communication and everything else, if your heart is still bleeding. People say that this is torture… But after all these years, when you consider person as part of your family, how can you turn your back and leave? How can you erase, what was there for a reason? Why build such a strong connection, just to rip it off (which is very painful too; it is a question what is more painful…)? It doesn’t seem right to me. This person is your family, he/she is your friend, and no matter how painful it is, you don’t just… pretend that nothing ever happened. If you…
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